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How to Get My Ex Back – Avoiding Contact At First

May 5th, 2009

When asking yourself the question how to get my ex back, it is important to always keep in mind that you are dealing with emotions at their highest level when you are dealing with relationships. The reason that this is important is that emotions, particularly emotions that are on a high level, generally do not follow logical patterns. That is you may be thinking “”f I do ‘X’ she will do ‘Y’ and the problem will be solved”. Unfortunately that is not the way that it really works. The best thing you can do shortly after a breakup is to reflect on the relationship itself and your role in what may have happened to cause the breakup. You should focus on your role not your partner’s. It is always easy to place blame on other people when looking at something that went wrong. It is easier because then you don’t have to look at your potential. When it comes to relationships there is always two sides to the story and unless you understand both sides your chances at reconciliation are slim.

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